I just spent such a delightful weekend with the Kripalu School of Ayurveda students, who should be graduating, like, any minute now. It was truly, madly, deeply enjoyable for me to spend time with them. Hopefully it wasn’t lousy for them either.
I am also aware that the Ayurvedic Institute students have graduated, or should be, any minute now. My thoughts are with them , and the other recent graduates of Ayurvedic programs around the globe.
Anyway, at Kripalu, we talked about important stuff. It was a clinical weekend. So we talked about being clinicians.
We talked about what Charaka thinks is important. He thinks 16 things are important for good therapeutic outcome. Well. Really, four things. Four things that each possess four qualities. That makes 16 qualities. The four main things are: the physician, the medicine, the attendant or nurse, and the patient. Each of those things should have four qualities in order for the outcome to be really positive. If you sign up for my Spring Newsletter, which should be out before Summer, http://drclaudiawelch.us1.list-manage.com/subscribe?u=37f75069fc3af75e4345730dc&id=19e4c67029 , you can read the airily-titled, “Sin, Virtue & Plant Medicine,” which goes into the four qualities medicine should possess for it to be most efficacious. We talked a bit about what qualities Charaka says the patient and attendant should have, but we mostly talked about the four qualities a physician should have.
First, we talked about the picture that comes to mind when you think about the kind of physician that seems to have been promoted in some circles, at least until recently. This physician might look a bit like Dr. House—a popular character on a TV show. A really smart physician with a lousy bedside manner. Here’s a to-do list for that type of physician:
- Be detached. That is– empathy is not seen as a virtue.
- Maintain a lack of remorse.
- Do not be emotional with your patients.
- Think very highly of yourself. Lots of confidence.
- Be charming but not loving. Your patient isn’t there for love. He or she is there for fixing.
- Be wicked intelligent.
- Be very rational
I should back up a little. On my drive from New York to Western MA, to Kripalu, I listened to an episode of NPR’s This American Life.
Okay. I listened to THREE episodes. What, me addicted?
Anyway, one of the episodes was called, “The Psychopath Test.”
Here are the top qualities of a psychopath:
- Lack of empathy
- Lack of remorse
- Shallow emotions
- Grandiose sense of self
- Incapacity for love
- Also: arrogant, callous, irresponsible, can exhibit superficial charm, good intelligence, not irrational, failure to learn from experience
Do you know where I’m going with this? Yes. Probably you do. And you are right. Perhaps because I was heading for this “clinical” weekend, I was struck by how many of these qualities can be associated with the Dr. House brand of physician.
So. When you put it that way, let’s, um, not be psychopathic with our patients.
Instead, we looked at the qualities Charaka says are important in a physician. He says a physician should:
- Know a lot. Should have excellent medical knowledge.
- Have loads of experience. (If you don’t have it, time to get some).
- Should have dexterity (Actually an interesting quality that we kept returning to over the course of the weekend.)
- Should have purity.
Now, I know Charaka doesn’t list anything really touchy feely there in terms of loving your patients, but this is just his list in his self-admittedly brief chapter—(chapter nine in Sutrasthanam). In the next chapter he elaborates on the qualities a physician should possess. And, while even there he doesn’t devote much page real estate to how loving a physician should be, he does say that a, “doctor should be sympathetic and kind to all patients…”
So there. Proof that we should not be psychopathic with our patients.
This, naturally, does not mean we need to swing to the other side of the pendulum either, and have a co-dependant, emotionally-laden, syrupy relationship with patients. Given a choice between a physician with empathy sans skill, and one with skill sans empathy, I’d have to take the latter any day. But, ideally we can have both skill and empathy, and maintain our own emotional health in the balance.
There is a lot more that could be said about all this but this is just a blog, after all, not a lecture or a weekend workshop.
In the end, let me just say that it is a great pleasure to work with serious students of Ayurveda, and students of life in general. I count it as one of my great blessings that I get to spend time with these people and, all you graduates, I’m glad you are out there. I expect the world will be a better place for it.
Congratulations.
In Love,
cw
ps. Hugh Laurie, I find you very entertaining & talented. This is not about you.

Dear Claudia…when I see your name pop up in my email, I drop everything to read what you have to say. I know two things when I see your name, 1) I’m going to learn something 2) I’m going to laugh outloud. Thank you for being such a wonderful teacher.
Okay. That’s really fun to read. Thanks, Amalawellness.
Fun and funny post. I look forward to your Spring Newsletter.
Are you thinking of travelling to the San Francisco area anytime soon?
Know what, Kate? I would love to get to the Bay area. I really missed not getting there this year. But no plans in the near future to get there. God willing, that will change…Spring Newsletter getting assembled pronto. Love, cw
Thank you, Dr. Welch. Thoroughly enjoyed its wisdom in between chuckles:)
So glad. All the best, cw
Thanks, Claudia! This is such a pleasure to read in the midst of a difficult day… As your student, I want to make sure that you know that I am never a psychopath with my clients. Not even once. So you must have done something right
looking forward to your Spring newsletter. and to Summer. xo Dool
Dear Dool, So sorry it was a difficult day. Very good to know that you have never been a psychopath with your patients. I am not surprised. Not so sure I can can say the same, though I have certainly tried to avoid it. Much love to you, dear lady. In Love, cw
well, it has to be said that you have seen waaaay more patients than i have….
Perhaps. But the main issue may have been more with the raw material & the need to have my own tendencies tamed and corralled. Not being humble here. Just honest. Not that I have been psychopathic, but have come face to face with some of those qualities at various times in my life. My guru has had his work cut out with me.
God willing, psychopathic qualities will not be governing factors in my fate. In Love, cw
Dear cw, Because of my training I would have said “try not to be a narcissist” – because the qualities assigned above are indeed the qualities of a narcissist in my training – of course, I think the intent would have been exactly the same – and it is. So much love to you my beautiful friend, thank you for this – I love it and you, in love, bg.
yes. addendum. try not to be narcissistic either. Or masochistic. Or sadistic. Much love to you too, Beth. In Love, cw
Hi Claudia!
This reminds me of my experience in Kerala when I had panchakarma for a month. My doctor was a young woman who would personally do my massage everyday. I remarked to her one day how much love I felt from her and she replied that her teacher (who started and runs the place) teaches that the therapies and herbs are only 50% of the cure. Love is the other half.
Thanks Kate. Sometimes I think 50% might be a generous #. Love, cw
Thanks Dr. Claudia! I know that the students and faculty really enjoyed your presentation in there culminating week of study at Kripalu. And thanks for the references in Charaka for the qualities of the Physician and medicine. Any chance you have a reference for the last sutra your shared regarding the supreme potency of sharing good company, singing and studying about God?
You are truly a gift to the medical community and I think a medico-comedy-drama with you and Hugh Laurie would be illuminating and hilarious!
Bart, Thanks for your kind words. I think I would enjoy such a medico-comedy-drama. I think the sutra you’re referring to, that I was referring to, is the last one I quote in this article I wrote called “Sin, Virtue & Plant Medicine” which you can find at: http://www.drclaudiawelch.com/pdf/Sin_Virtue_Plant_Medicine.pdf
Much love, cw